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200+ Sexy Questions to Ask a Girlfriend – The Only List You Need

200+ Sexy Questions to Ask a Girlfriend – The Only List You Need

Updated on Nov 03, 2023

Reviewed by Julianne Cantarella, MSW, LSW , Certified Relationship Coach


When couples share their inner worlds, connection and happiness improve. Self-disclosure is thought to result in more intimate connections and happier relationships by providing more information about their inner worlds. 

Therefore, sexy questions to ask a girlfriend are one of the ways to explore her interest in intimacy and sexual life. 

You can use this time to deepen your connection on your next date night to feel closer and more connected to your partner. You may have known your partner for a long time, but you should always learn more. 

Here are some ideas for sparking an interesting conversation with your girlfriend or partner. 

Freaky Sexy Questions to ask a Girlfriend

Want to spice up the love game, here are some amazing freaky questions to ask your girl.

  1. Are you embarrassed to strip off in front of a girl?
  2. What part of your body is easiest to kiss?
  3. Have you dreamed anything unrealistic about me?
  4. Do you thought about me when we are apart?
  5. Do you ever remember fantasizing about me before we started dating?
  6. If I asked you, would you record yourself masturbating and email it to me?
  7. Do you scan passing men for potential suitors?
  8. How frequently do you want us to have sex?
  9. What three adjectives would you use to describe my body if you had to?
  10. Have you ever played a ruse?
  11. What are you doing tonight?
  12. Have you ever had a sexual activity just because you were horny?
  13. What is the worst thing you’ve ever thought of me?
  14. Where would we be if we could be anywhere right now?
  15. What would I be wearing right now, if you could see me wearing any outfit?
  16. What do you think of a guy with body hair?
  17. What about my physique do you like?
  18. Have you ever thought of me as naked?
  19. What fictional character do I resemble?
  20. Will you let me accompany you home?
  21. Have you ever had a feeling for someone who is same sex?
  22. Have you ever been tempted by a more senior person?
  23. How many ex-partners’ phone numbers still exist in your contact?
  24. Have you ever had feelings for the partner of a friend?
  25. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
  26. Have you ever engaged in or seen cheating?
  27. How do I stack up against the other males you’ve dated?
  28. Have you ever been in a relationship that was open?
  29. Have you had a lot of boyfriends?
  30. When you lost it, how old were you?
  31. Has a man ever left you in the middle of a passionate kiss?

Sexiest questions to ask your girlfriend

If you want to get more intimate in a relationship, these are some sexiest questions to ask your girlfriend.

  1. Can you demonstrate your “Move” to arouse a guy?
  2. How do you imagine receiving a massage from me?
  3. Is it just me, or is this place starting to grow warm?
  4. Who would enter the first if there was just one fitting room available at a store selling underwear?
  5. What would you do if you unintentionally came upon a photo of me in my undies?
  6. How would you feel if I entered the shower and discovered you to be naked?
  7. Where would you kiss me if you had to?
  8. Do you like our time spent alone together?
  9. Do you believe we look like a couple?
  10. What would you do if you could do something right now that we would both quickly forget?
  11. Is it OK to have fantasies about men you are not currently dating?
  12. Which do you value more: your looks or your brain?
  13. Do you think love can be found at first sight?
  14. What makes a one-night stand with a total stranger different from having one while in a committed relationship?
  15. What makes a man appealing to you?
  16. Do you agree with the concept of “friends with benefits”?

Fun sex Qs to ask your girlfriend

Fun with flirt makes an amazing pair. Therefore, we have curated the best funny sexy questions to ask your girlfriend.

  1. Have you ever had feelings for a teacher?
  2. Have you ever had a friend-with-benefits relationship?
  3. What do I do better than the other men you’ve been with?
  4. How many times a week did you have sex before meeting me?
  5. Do you occasionally daydream about your female friends?
  6. Describe your sex life in three words?
  7. Have you ever engaged in pointless sex with a partner?
  8. At what age did you experience your first kiss?
  9. Have you ever asked a man to meet you in a private place so you could make out?
  10. When you were in a long-distance relationship, did you ever cheat?
  11. Do you want to recreate a sexy scene from a movie with me?
  12. Do you still communicate with the person with whom you had your virginity?
  13. Have you ever dated someone for only one night before entering a committed relationship?
  14. Whom among your ex-lovers would you pick to spend the night with, and why?
  15. Have you ever been caught cheating on your partner?
  16. What age did you start masturbating at?
  17. Have you ever made advances on a friend’s boyfriend?
  18. Are you more of a casual or serious girl in a relationship?
  19. What does the ideal date look like to you?
  20. Do you believe you are aware of what guys desire in the bedroom?
  21. If you’re in love, does sex get more interesting?
  22. Where is the ideal setting for first-time sex?

Dirty Qs to arouse your girlfriend 

Nothing is better than asking kinky questions to arouse her. Here are some of the best-listed dirty questions to ask your girl.

  1. When did you realize that you liked me?
  2. What do you like best about our time together?
  3. Have you been exercising?
  4. Would you mind listing some of the reasons I like you?
  5. What is it that you want most from a relationship?
  6. If I kissed you right now, what would you say?
  7. Who should initiate contact in a relationship?
  8. Would you be interested in going out with me?
  9. Have you ever flirted online with a total stranger?
  10. What do you like best about me?
  11. Where would you like to go on a date with me if I could take you anywhere?
  12. On a first date, do you welcome the person inside?
  13. I’ve heard that kissing expels a lot of calories. Do you want to aid my exercise?
  14. Your lips seem to be alone. Do you want my lips to accompany them?
  15. What would you say or do to suggest that you desire sex with me?
  16. Can I use your bed because mine is broken?
  17. Do you have a favorite game to play in bed?
  18. Would you join me in a dance?
  19. Do you give or do you receive?
  20. What shade are your briefs?
  21. Do you believe in your attractiveness?
  22. Have you ever had sex with me in your mind?
  23. Can I massage your entire body?
  24. Should I wear a colored bra for our first make-out session?

Hot & sexy questions

Set the room on fire with these hot questions that will not only make the moments intimate but also reveals layers of willingness. 

  1. Do you enjoy it when I act impurely against you?
  2. Can I see you playing with yourself?
  3. Which color of underwear do you like on me?
  4. What about the night of our wedding?
  5. What do you find most seductive about me?
  6. Which sex position do you like to have with me?
  7. Do you have a favorite nighttime memory of us?
  8. Do you like to take the initiative or do you appreciate it when I’m in charge?
  9. Do you like it when I initiate contact in bed?
  10. Are there any positions that you haven’t yet tried but would like to?
  11. Do you want to go home with me tonight?
  12. Which location would be the most improper for what you want to do?
  13. Name the top five places you want a kiss from me, and I’ll give you one immediately.
  14. Do you want to touch me in front of others?
  15. What music usually makes you feel good? 
  16. What is a sexy thing you’ve always wanted to do but were hesitant to tell me about?
  17. Aside from the bedroom, where else would you want to have me?
  18. Do you recall when I tied you to that fence?
  19. Want to irritate the neighbors a little?
  20. What piece of clothing is the simplest to take off a person?
  21. Would you want to have a kiss in my bed?
  22. Are you sexually a shy girl?
  23. Do you know how attractive you are?
  24. If you had me to yourself for an entire day, what would you do?
  25. Besides being attractive, what do you actually do for a living?
  26. Can I try the zipper on those nice pants?
  27. What would you do if the two of us were left alone at home?
  28. Can you kiss well?
  29. What shade of briefs do you suppose I’m wearing?
  30. What would you do if I opened the door without clothes on?
  31. Have you ever considered removing my clothes?

Kinky questions

Ask these kinky yet hot questions to your girlfriend and see the magic begin in your love and intimate life.

  1. Do you feel envious when other females flirt with me?
  2. What would you like me to do for you that I haven’t already done?
  3. Do you follow me around after I leave you?
  4. Which position do you like me in?
  5. Would you quit or continue masturbating if I ever caught you doing it?
  6. Have you ever dreamed about me?
  7. Do you enjoy receiving my sexual messages?
  8. What would you say is the thing about me that you find least attractive?
  9. Do you enjoy it when I don’t cover up?
  10. Do you get jealous when other women look at me?
  11. What else do you need from me that I haven’t previously provided?
  12. Do you still follow me when I leave?
  13. Which role do you prefer me to have?
  14. Would you ever do it if you had your period?
  15. If I ever saw you masturbating, would you stop or keep doing it?
  16. Have I ever been in your dreams?
  17. Do you find my sexual texts enjoyable to receive?
  18. What about me do you think is least appealing?
  19. Do you like it when I’m not wearing a mask?

Naughty questions to add some fun

Being naughty brings more pleasure and fun to the conversation and meet-up. So, don’t miss any chance and ask these naughty questions to your girl.

  1. Have you ever wished to fore-play?
  2. Would you ever utilize bondage?
  3. How would you want to be touched?
  4. Do you believe that making love shouldn’t simply take place in bed?
  5. Have there been any movements that you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t?
  6. Do you enjoy playing around in bed with extreme temperatures like ice or wax?
  7. What kind of accessories do you enjoy using in bed?
  8. Where have you done it at the most daring location?
  9. Which three locations would you use, other than your house?
  10. Which clothing would you want to see me wearing?
  11. Which side of the motorbike would you choose to ride on if I were a motorcycle?
  12. Would you write a “bedroom bucket list” for me if I asked you to?
  13. Do you ever fantasize in private?
  14. Which of these dreams did you have about me?
  15. Do you believe I’m wearing underpants right now?
  16. Could you give me a hand?
  17. What position do you prefer to play?
  18. Would you like to take me on any crazy adventures?
  19. Would you join me in a fitting room if we were out shopping for clothes?
  20. Have you ever performed it in front of others?
  21. Do you want to carry it out in front of people?
  22. Would whispering inappropriate things into your ear make you crazy?
  23. Would you pose for me in lingerie if I purchased it for you?

Spicy questions

Has your intimate life become boring and unpleasant? Then, spice up your life by asking these spicy questions to your girlfriend.

  1. What might I email you to make you feel hot right away?
  2. Have a favorite “adult film” celebrity?
  3. Do you enjoy my whispering in your ear?
  4. Do you prefer it when I kiss your neck gently?
  5. How long can you last?
  6. Which do you prefer, the bedroom or the bathroom?
  7. Do you prefer working with the lights on or off?
  8. Would you be interested in trying out food in the bedroom?
  9. Have you ever considered dressing up while making out?
  10. Do you tell your friends about the immoral things we do together?
  11. What position do you prefer to play?
  12. Have you ever been entirely exposed in public?
  13. Do you have any experience skinny dipping?
  14. What kind of foreplay is your favorite?
  15. What is the most outrageous thing you’ve ever done in bed?
  16. What look gives you the greatest confidence?
  17. Which underwear is your favorite?
  18. Where is your preferred location for a kiss?
  19. What do you think about public kissing?
  20. What is anything that makes you feel jittery?
  21. What did you think of me at first?
  22. What would you say about me in three words?
  23. What name would you give me if I had a pet?
  24. Do you consider me while I’m not around?
  25. Have you ever tried seeing myself without clothes?
  26. Which of your dreams was the most unusual?
  27. Which of your strangest dreams involving me was it?
  28. Do you think about our “intimate times” while working?

21 sexy questions

Do you want to make your night memorable for a lifetime? Then, start with asking these questions that will spice up the whole environment of your room.

  1. While you’re at work, may we sext?
  2. Ever engaged in inappropriate “phone talk”?
  3. Would you be open to trying out some blindfolds?
  4. How did your “sexual awakening” unfold?
  5. Which underwear is your favorite?
  6. Ever engaged in a “one-night stand”?
  7. Do you think of yourself as a nice or horrible girl?
  8. Do you favor giving or receiving?
  9. What time of day is ideal to do it?
  10. Have you ever had a sexual relationship with a coworker?
  11. Have you ever engaged in a discussion about “birds and bees”?
  12. Have you ever become so preoccupied that you unintentionally screamed someone else’s name?
  13. What is the main non-sexual trigger for your arousal?
  14. When you “play with yourself,” what are your thoughts?
  15. What is the sexiest movie scene you’ve ever seen?
  16. Where is your preferred location for a kiss?
  17. What is your wildest desire that you have never tried?
  18. Have you ever given a lady another kiss?
  19. Which body part do you like best?
  20. Would you want to play with us in front of each other?
  21. Do you watch any explicit videos? Which one is your favorite?


Were these queries enjoyable? Is there a crucial query we missed that would have been really effective? 

Now that you have sexy questions to ask a girlfriend, pick the ones you like best or are most comfortable with and add them to your arsenal. 

It is time to raise the temperature in your relationship and make your partner sweat! 

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