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Signs that You’ve an Unexplainable Connection with Someone and How to Deal it?

Signs that You’ve an Unexplainable Connection with Someone and How to Deal it?

Updated on Nov 03, 2023

Reviewed by Julianne Cantarella, MSW, LSW , Certified Relationship Coach

Signs that You’ve an Unexplainable Connection with Someone and How to Deal it

Have you ever met someone for the first time and felt a tickle in your heart… like an instant unexplainable connection with someone? Do you feel like have a deep connection with them from the very first day you met?

Such moments can be deep and profound and make us question why we feel like this about that person.

Well, I have all the answers for you in this think-piece. So, let’s dig in!

Signs that You’ve an Unexplainable Connection with Someone and How to Deal it
Signs that You’ve an Unexplainable Connection with Someone and How to Deal it

What does it mean when you feel an unexplainable connection with someone?

Let’s say, you are at a party and you meet someone for the first time in your life. But somehow, you feel an instant connection with them from the very first moment you met them.

Sounds very thrilling, doesn’t it?

Well, when you feel a connection with a stranger, and you cannot really say what it is or why you feel so – it might mean that you have a strong physical attraction towards them and it would be wise to not pursue the feeling and get into a relationship too soon.

It might indicate that you have a soul connection with them. This is usually a very strong and long-lasting connection that is not based on looks or material things but goes deeper than them!

Signs You’ve an Unexplainable Connection with Someone

If you still aren’t sure what it feels like to have an unexplainable connection with someone, here are 20 clear signs to help you put your emotions into perspective…

1. You both hit off like cheese & pizza

We’ve all had those moments where we meet someone and just know that we would get along. There’s an instant rapport, a feeling of intense connection that can’t be explained. It’s as if you’ve known each other for years, even though it’s only been minutes.

2. You feel a Karmic connection with them

Karmic connection means to have a spiritual connection with someone.

When you feel such unexplainable connections with someone, it is a sign that your souls are connected spiritually. You feel like you as if you know them from another lifetime!

With them, you also get a sense of Deja vu. You feel like you’ve already experienced moments like this before with the same person!

3. This thing you have with them feels effortless

Relationships these days feel like forced and short-lived connections. But that is not the case when you have a spontaneous unexplainable connection with someone.

When you meet a person like that, you instantly click with each other. You feel that you were meant to be together among so many people in the world.

4. They will forever have a special place in your heart

Once you meet this person, they feel like your soulmate. Even if you do not end up with each other in a relationship or never meet each other again, they will forever remain etched in your mind and heart. They will always hold a special place in your heart that nobody can replace!

5. Your energies are interlinked

When you experience this special bond, a kind of divine connection with someone you’ve never met, you will find your energies to align with each other. You can feel their presence even when they’re not around and vice versa.

This is because your soul connection is so strong that it goes beyond time and space. You can also sense if they are sad or in trouble, even when you’re miles away from each other.

6. You can be yourself around them

When you are with them, you do not feel the need to pretend to be someone else.  You find yourself feeling comfortable in your own skin when you are with them. You can be yourself unapologetically.

This is because you know they will accept and love you for who you are. You can just be yourself and know that they will still love you, no matter what.

7. You learn a lot from them

When you have a spiritual connection with someone you tend to learn a lot from them. They help you see things from a different perspective. They might even challenge your beliefs and guide you to think outside the box.

This happens to both, and you both learn and grow with each other. Spiritual connections help in self-transformation.

8. They help you understand yourself better

These unexplained soul connections help you to know yourself better. They help to open up your own eyes.

You might be able to discover your triggers, needs, fears, desires, and even values and goals in your life. Their interest in you makes you ask yourself questions you never even considered before.

9. You feel a sense of calm

You feel a sense of calm and serenity when you’re with them. It is as if all your worries and fears disappear in their presence.

This happens because you feel safe and secure with them. You know for a fact, that no matter what happens they will always be there for you!

10. Everyone else disappears

No one else matters to you when you two are together. It’s as if the whole world becomes non-existent for you both. This is because your connection is so strong that nothing else matters when you’re together.

You can be in a room full of people but it will feel like it is just the two of you. You just love to spend time with each other.

11. You respect each other

You treat each other with the utmost respect. You do not shy away to leave your personal biases behind and treat them as equal individuals.

When you have this kind of connection with someone, you both feel heard, seen, and valued.

12. You can be vulnerable and open with them

To reveal your deepest fears and weaknesses to someone may feel scary. But it feels like a natural thing to do when you feel such an intense connection with someone.

You want to share each and every feeling and all your deepest worries. You know they will never use these to hurt you or cause any harm. I mean, you just know your secrets are safe with them forever.

13. You have a strong physical attraction to each other

Strong physical attraction is one of the most common signs of an unexplainable connection with someone.

You get butterflies in your stomach when you see them, and your heart skips a beat when they walk into the same room. These are things that just defy all logical explanations.

14. You understand each other without words

When you find someone with whom you sense a strong unexplainable connection, you just vibe very naturally. You get along so well that you can read each other’s body language.

You do not need to explain yourselves with words. Even if you are a long distance apart from each other, you both can read each other’s minds and sense if they’re feeling upset or low about something.

15. There is no jealousy or competition

There’s no jealousy or competition when you have such a profound connection with someone. You’re not threatened by their success or feel like you need to one-up them.

You’re happy for them and always want the best for them. They feel the same way about you too. You both want each other to grow and be the best version of yourselves.

16. Your values align with each other

This happens because you both will have the same mental wavelength. Your values and ideals will be similar to each other. Even if you disagree with each other on trivial everyday matters; deep down you will be perfectly aligned with each other.

And, this is what matters more in a relationship. When you have the same vision, it helps to work towards the same goal without the need to compromise and sacrifice anything.

17. You’re happy to go the extra mile for them

You both are willing to offer help, protect, defend, stand by them, or offer moral support, if need be, without the expectations for anything in return.

You consider them your “ride or die,” and they consider you the same. Each of you would go above and beyond to help the other.

18. Communication is effortless

You both are so comfortable with each other that you do not need to make effort to start a conversation with each other.

Conversations flow like water without boredom or fatigue because you genuinely want to be with them and get to know them better.

19. You feel unconditional love towards them

When you love someone unconditionally, it means that you want what’s best for them, even if it’s not you. You love them for who they are.

You accept their flaws and see the beauty in them, even if no one else does. It’s like you can see right into their souls and feel a lot of love and affection.

20. They make you feel the happiest

This is probably the biggest sign which tells that you have an intense unexplainable connection with someone. You feel profound happiness and pleasure when you’re with them.

They make you feel such innate joy and pleasure which you never thought you could ever experience. They can make you feel on top of the world and rolled up in a blanket at the same time.

Types of unexplainable connections

Some connections are just different from anything you’ve ever experienced before. These connections are special and influence your life in some way or the other. 

These can often turn out to be your spiritual connections, twin flames, or even your soulmates. Let’s learn a little more about each one of these.

1. Spiritual connection

You feel the energy shift when you encounter them. People who have spiritual connections share similar values and beliefs about what is important to them. They tend to help and look out for one another like a team and are responsible towards each other.

2. Twinflames

A twin flame is an intense soul connection with someone who is thought to be a person’s other half. It’s based on the idea that sometimes one soul gets split into two bodies. They are “mirror souls” so to speak. 

A twin flame connection can heal you and challenge you at the same time. It will reveal the deepest insecurities, fears, and shadows and help both of you to overcome them individually. Twin Flame relationships do not last very long.

3. Soulmates

The soulmate connection isn’t temporary. It goes beyond initial chemistry and “love at first sight.” A soulmate is someone who completely understands you and loves you unconditionally. It’s an undeniable connection. 

A soulmate relationship is based on total trust, respect, forgiveness, and contribution. It is like two different souls extraordinarily linked with each other.

4. Kindred spirits

Kindred spirits are those people with whom you pretty much agree on all of the small and big stuff. 

You love the same things; laugh at the same jokes; agree and disagree with love and affection; compete with zeal but without bitterness or jealousy. These people share the same journey towards truth and love, just as you.

5. Karmic connections

Karmic connections are people who have the same life mission/purpose as yours. You’re both here together to make a difference in the world, and your skills complement one another. 

This kind of relationship doesn’t involve love or intimacy and instead requires you to put your best self forward to achieve something that matters.

Can you be connected to someone you have never met?

You can be feeling an unexplainable connection with someone you’ve never met. These experiences are rare, and only the lucky ones get to experience such connections.

Yes! You can definitely experience a deep connection with someone you’ve never met at all. These connections go beyond our understanding of the physical world.

They are mostly Karmic and spiritual connections and are not influenced by looks or material things. You will feel as if your soul has bonded with the other person’s soul and vice versa.

How do you know if it is real?

You will know in your heart and mind that it is real. You will never be able to get rid of the feeling.

A lot of time, we come across people who make us feel the most unexplainable attraction towards them. It is a connection beyond time and space. It is so intense that you question yourself – is it even real? 

Well, to be honest, there is no truer connection than a spiritual or a soul connection. If you feel this unexplained pull towards someone, it usually means that your souls have connected and you both were meant to be with each other.

You will know it is real because you will feel it. You may wish to disregard it and move on with life but your mind and soul will keep on reminding you. Once you find that connection, you will never be able to deny it!

Why do you feel a connection with someone you barely know?

Karmic connections or spiritual connections usually feel like this. You feel a strong connection with a complete stranger.

A karmic connection happens when you feel excited and passionate about someone, and this connection offers opportunities for important life lessons.

There are chances that life wants to teach you something with this person. It is one of the reasons why you may feel so connected to someone you barely know.

The other reason might be that your souls belonged with each other in the past lifetimes. They are your soulmate, and the universe has found a way to reunite your souls again.

In such cases, you will feel that you have known this person forever. You feel a deep emotional connection with them even if you have never met them before.

Does the opposite person feel the same connection?

There is a possibility that the other person will also feel the same intense connection as you. But it also might happen that they would not even realize anything at all.

Nothing can get worse than a lopsided attraction. Say you meet this person and you feel connected to them instantly. But they might not feel the same with you. This might happen that their soul is still not as awakened as yours, or maybe they fail to read the signs.

Soul connections are mostly mutual. Both people would feel the same way when they meet. If it at all happens that the other person does not feel connected with you, there is nothing to be disheartened about.

You both will again cross each other’s paths. When two souls have a connection, they are destined to be together. The other person just probably just needs a little more time!

How to make the most of this unexplainable connection?

You meet your soul or spiritual connections only when the time is right. The best way to make most of such connections is to be patient with it and look out for the signs to identify it.

The idea of such deep spiritual connections may seem to be full of thrill and excitement but it would be foolish to set out in search of them. If you are to meet your soul connection, it will appear in your life when the time is right.

If you try to examine each and every person to identify your “soul connection”, you might miss to identify when it actually appears in your life. Instead, just be calm and wait for it to happen in the natural course of things.

Also, once you identify your soul connection, cherish it and see if the feeling is mutual for both of you. If yes, then just hold on to each other because you were destined to be together.

If the connection does not turn out to be mutual, let life go on as it was. Do not force it upon the other person. Instead, wait for the universe to do its magic.

Ways to Deal with this unexplainable connection

It is easy to feel thrilled and confused at the same time when you sense an unexplainable connection with someone.

But instead of being worried about it, it would be easier if you try to understand each feeling that you experience towards this person.

Below is a list of 5 ways how you can deal with such unexplainable connections.

1. Find the right words to describe your feeling

The best way to deal with something you are unable to explain would be to sit down by yourself and try to break down this giddy feeling. You can do this by asking yourself questions like:

  • Are you just physically attracted to this person?
  • Can this bloom into a relationship in the future?
  • Do you think this feeling is temporary?
  • How strongly connected to each other do you feel?
  • Is this a mutual feeling?
  • How does this person’s existence affect your life in general?

Once you find answers to such questions, you would be able to set your expectations right and take the correct step from here onwards.

2. Try to understand if this connection is lop-sided

If you jump into the next step without confirming if the other person feels the same way about you or not, you might end up heart-broken.

So, before confronting the person regarding what you feel for them, try to get a better picture of what they feel about you.

If they feel the same way, their body language will give it away. If the connection is not mutual, do not try to force it onto them. It will not last very long.

3. Confide your feelings to someone you trust

Speak to someone you know you can trust and seek advice for your situation. Often when we speak to others about our feelings, they can actually comprehend better than us. This happens because their logic and judgment are not clouded by our feelings.

So, talking to a friend or a family member often helps us to see things clearly, and they can even guide us in the right direction with their own experiences from life.

4. Do not rush to conclusions

If you are unable to put your finger on what you feel at the moment, it is always a good idea to take a step back and give yourself some time to process this whole experience.

The thought of meeting your soulmate may excite you, but beware this may or may not turn out to be your true love!

If you feel the same way after a considerable amount of time, and you are sure that this is definitely something you want, then go ahead!

5. Go with what suits you best

If you feel that the connection you are experiencing is lop-sided; and the other person does not feel the same intense connection as you feel for them; it would be wise to step away and not take this forward. Lop-sided connections never work out, and they will end in heartbreak.

But, if you at all feel that the connection is strong and mutual, you should definitely go ahead and take this to the next level.

A word from ThePleasantRelationship

This strong unexplainable connection you feel for somebody you have never met before may leave you excited and elated.

At the end of the day, if you feel it, it is real for you. But what ultimately lies behind this connection you are feel with this other person probably depends on your unique circumstances.

Only you can understand and sense which potential explanation seems like it could be the most obvious reason for you.

When you have this instant connection, it’s likely that there is more than what just meets the eye. Something at a deeper level is at play, and it’s worth a shot. Who knows, you might end up with your twin flame or even your soulmate?