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How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: An Ultimate Guide

How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: An Ultimate Guide

Updated on May 27, 2022 | Published on Feb 10, 2022

Reviewed by Julianne Cantarella, MSW, LSW , Certified Relationship Coach

How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend An Ultimate Guide

How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend is a very common question for guys. If you are now asking this question to yourself too, first of all, congratulations on finding the one for you. 

You may think that it is something very difficult to do and you are feeling nervous and shaky just with the thought of doing it. 

There are some basic things that you need to be careful about like the timing, the place, and the way you are going to ask her.

You need to plan out everything carefully to make that moment memorable for both of you. 

You need to put all your effort in if you really want everything to work out.

In this article, we have covered everything that you need to work on and understand if you are thinking of asking someone to be your girlfriend. 

How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: An Ultimate Guide
How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend: An Ultimate Guide

Things you need to remember before asking a girl to be your girlfriend 

Summary
There are certain things that you need to pay more attention to if you want to do everything the right way. You need to keep those points in your mind if you really want her to say yes. 

If you want to ask someone to be your girlfriend that means you really like her and you want her to say yes in response to your question.

Then start preparing for your big day and put all your efforts into it. 

Follow these points and it will help you to plan something wonderful for your girl and will make your dreams come true. 

1. Show your confidence

If you ask your girl to be your girlfriend with low self-confidence, that will be a big turn-off for her.

Women love men who are confident about themselves and their decisions about different things in life.

Try to reflect your confidence through your appearance and your way of speaking. Plan before what you actually want to tell her. This will help you to express what you actually feel about her and what you want from her.

Try not to be overconfident about anything that will ruin everything you are preparing for. Do not let your ego come in between and reflect through your words. 

Do not look here and there. Maintain eye contact with her and talk your heart out. Keep your chin up and keep a smile on your face. This appearance will attract your girl and can create magic. 

2. Pay more attention to your appearance 

Paying attention to your appearance does not mean that you need to wear something costly or you have to make six-packs.

Your appearance should be confident and well maintained.

Women do not want a perfect man, they only want to see your efforts. Do not settle for a basic outfit. Try something gentle and eye-soothing to make a good impression. 

Take shower properly, trim your beard (if you have any) and make some effort to look clean and gentle.

Iron your clothes, shine your shoes and smell good. This will impress your girl and she will appreciate your effort to look good for her. 

3. You can book a photographer if you really want

If you are planning something big for your girl then you can book a photographer to capture your beautiful moment and preserve that memory. 

It does not always mean that you need to book someone professional for this. You can involve some of your friends or your relatives who are good with cameras and ask them to capture the moment. 

Try to be extra careful so that your girl does not notice that she is being captured, and you can record her true reactions. 

After a long time in your relationship, these pictures or videos will definitely remind you of that moment and bring a smile to your face. 

4. Try a unique way

Put some more effort into planning the entire date where you are going to ask her to be your girlfriend. Try something unique and out of the box and try not to follow what everyone else is doing.

Think about what your girl really likes and involve it in your plan. Choose something that can represent both of you.

You can bring a gift for her, something which can represent your love for each other and which will always remind her of you. 

Keep everything a surprise for her. Be extra careful so that she cannot suspect a single thing about your plans.

Pay attention to her mood and her choices so that you can decide on a perfect time and a perfect place to execute your plan. 

5. Be flexible

If everything is sorted and you are ready to execute a plan, make sure to prepare yourself to be flexible enough so that you can handle any outcome.

Keep a positive attitude, hope for the best but also prepare yourself for the worst. It is safer to prepare beforehand. 

Even if everything else is ready to go, do not rush it until you are mentally prepared.

Always have a backup plan ready so that if anything goes wrong you can have some alternatives to make up. 

If things do not go as you planned and you face some issues with the light, music, or something else, try not to panic.

Be flexible enough to control the situation and think of something else quickly. 

6. Be yourself

Try not to fake something when you are planning something for your girl. Do not copy someone. Be confident in yourself and plan something from your heart and that is all that matters to her. 

Try not to fake something to make things more attractive or big. It will only reflect your lack of self confidence and hide your true self.

Let her experience your true personality and express your true thoughts. 

Women love honesty in men. Show your true emotions and talk about everything that you want to share with her.

This will make you more attractive and her respect for you will also be positively affected by your honesty. 

7. Try not to be overwhelmed 

When you are asking the girl you like to be your girlfriend this can be really overwhelming for you.

You may experience mixed emotions at that time. You can feel nervous as well as excited at the same time. 

It is very natural to lose your words and get puzzled when you see her even if you have prepared yourself nicely.

Try to work on your emotions and get a hold of them. Do not beat around the bush, rather try coming straight to the point. 

It is okay to be nervous but don’t let your emotions affect your moment in a negative way. Be confident and tell your girl what you actually feel about her. 

8. Maintain eye contact

Maintaining eye contact is a sign of self confidence. Look into her eyes while asking her to be your girlfriend.

Looking into each other’s eyes can create a romantic moment, which will help you to ask your big question smoothly. 

Eyes can speak a lot even if you are not saying something verbally.

If you are maintaining eye contact with your girl that will reflect your confidence level and your determination. Your true feelings about her will also reflect through your eyes. 

9. Buy something for her 

Buy a gift for your girl that you can give her while asking her to be your girlfriend. Think very carefully before choosing a gift.

The gift does not need to be costly, it should be something special for both of you.

The gift should be something that can reflect her feelings for her.

Explore your creativity and your emotions so you can choose something that can represent your relationship and can be memorable for both of you. 

You can give her something that she can always carry like a promise ring or a charm bracelet or a pendant while asking her to be your girlfriend. 

Those gifts can represent your love and will always stay close to her heart. If she can carry your gift all the time with her, it will remind her of you even if you are not with her at that point. 

You can give her something else too, something that can bring a smile to her face like a teddy bear.

Once you understand her preferences about different things it will be easier to choose something for her. 

10. Do not overdo

When someone is planning something for their loved ones they often have a tendency to make everything perfect and often they overdo.

Women will not search for the perfect, they will appreciate the effort instead. 

Try to keep things simple and real and try not to exaggerate anything. Do not copy someone, be yourself and express what you truly feel about her. 

It is normal that you will try to make everything perfect for your day but sometimes you just need to go with the flow. Be comfortable when you are with her and be your natural self. 

11. Remember the necessary details about your girl

When you are asking someone to be your girlfriend you should know the basic things about her. Pay attention to her details and try to remember everything you know about her. 

Try to understand her likes and dislikes about different things in life. Every girl has different views and expectations in their life. Try to find out what your girl expects from you and plan your day accordingly. 

Spend more quality time with her and let her open up to you.

Once you can understand her dreams and her preferences it will be easier for you to plan something that will reach her heart and make her dreams real. 


40 Different ways to ask a girl to be your girlfriend 

1. Plan a trip 

You can plan a small trip somewhere nearby on a weekend. This will give you enough time to spend with each other.

You both will be able to know more about each other and understand each other in a better way. 

You can take her to a beautiful place close to nature and ask her to be your girlfriend. This way you can create a romantic moment together which you can remember forever.

On the other hand, the beautiful and romantic environment will also impact her decision in a positive way. 

This trip can also give you enough time to boost your confidence level and increase your courage. Find a good time to talk to her when she is in a very good mood and tell her all about your feelings about her. 

If she says yes you also can explore each other in a new way and enjoy your time together for the last few hours of your trip. 

2. Make something creative together

You can plan an indoor date and make something creative together. Choose something that your girl enjoys doing and is passionate about. Creating something new together can be really romantic sometimes. 

If you want to ask her in a unique way without saying anything verbally you can use your creativity to send this message to her and see how she reacts. 

Creating something together can help you to understand your compatibility and your ability to work on something together.

If you both can work on something together and manage everything in a wonderful way this can make her decision easier.

This can be the start of a wonderful relationship between you two. You can preserve the thing you are working on together that will remind both of you of this beautiful moment forever. 

3. Book a restaurant 

You can make a reservation at her favorite restaurant and take her there on a normal date. Do not let her doubt your intentions and keep everything under control. 

You can order her favorite food and drinks and ask her as soon as you find the perfect moment. 

You can also ask the authority beforehand to make a special dish or a cake and write down your question on it. This can be really romantic as well as exciting for her. 

You can also play some nice romantic music to set the mood when you are going to ask her to be your girlfriend. 

Tell someone from the restaurant before to capture the moment and record her reaction when you are telling her how you feel about her. 

4. Plan a candle night dinner

You can plan a candle light dinner at your place and invite her over. Decorate your place with some flowers and some fairy lights and light some scented candles. 

You can order her favorite food or make them on your own to give it an extra romantic touch. Pour a glass of wine and play some romantic songs in the background. 

This will really set the mood and she will definitely appreciate your efforts. 

Take her hand and slow dance with her and let the romantic mood create some magic in the air.

Once you both are lost in the moment with each other you can express your feelings for her and ask her to be your girlfriend. 

5. Plan a musical night 

If you both love music then you can arrange a musical night together. If one of you knows how to play an instrument then arrange a jamming session at your place. 

Set up the fireplace and create a cozy environment with some snacks and a cup of hot coffee. 

Making songs together with the person you like can always be fun and entertaining. This can also create a romantic environment too. 

You can try to convey your sweet message to the girl by singing some romantic song by adding your own lyrics or you can just play something in the background and tell her all about your feelings for her. 

6. Order her favorite food

If the girl you like is a foodie you can choose food as a medium to express your emotions. You can order her favorite food and invite her to your place. 

Create a romantic environment with some fairy lights and some music. You can also arrange a bonfire on your roof just to add more flavor to the night. 

Set up the table for her, involve her in some discussion and talk about different things. You can talk about both of your life, about your future goals or your good memories together.

As soon as you are ready and you think the environment is perfect you can start talking about your emotions and ask your question to her. 

You can order the food beforehand and add some of your own creativity while setting up the table so that she can get a hint about your intentions and just use that moment to express your feelings. 

7. Make a clip and show her

 If you are very nervous to confess your feelings in front of her and you are worried you may mess up everything then this idea is perfect for you. 

Set up the camera and talk about everything that you want to tell her. You can talk about your feelings, your emotions, and about what you want from her and make a video of it. 

Later you can plan a date for her and show her the video on a big screen. This way you can avoid telling her face to face and convey your message in a unique way. 

It is not necessary that you can only use this idea if you are nervous. You can execute this idea even if you are confident enough. 

Say whatever you want to tell your girl and make a video of it. You can also make a video by adding your pictures together.

Plan a date, play the video on a screen and ask her to be your girlfriend as soon as the video ends. 

8. Sing her a song

You can plan a date at your place and try to sing a song that can express your feelings for her. Choose the song very carefully so that you can convey your message to her.

You can also change the lyrics of the song and make your own that will add to the romanticism. 

If you can play any instrument you can also try to make a new tune for her and write the lyrics according to your emotions. You can end the song with the questions you want to ask her. 

Set up a camera somewhere so that you can capture the moment but keep it hidden so that you can get her true reactions. 

9. Surprise her on her birthday

If you have made up your mind that you are going to confess your feelings to her and her birthday is coming, this will be the best opportunity for you to do so.

You can plan a surprise for her birthday and that will definitely make her feel special. 

You can plan a surprise date at her favorite restaurant. Order a cake for her beforehand and you can also write down your question on the cake itself.

This can be a unique way to ask her and this will definitely be the best surprise for her. 

You can also arrange a date at your place. Decorate your home and cook something nice for her. You can write your question on your wall using the decor and display it to her after she cuts the cake. 

Invite some of your mutual friends and arrange a surprise party for her. Ask any of your friends to capture the moment secretly when you are asking her your question. 

10. Go swimming 

If you both love swimming you can arrange a swimming date. Take your girl to a nice swimming pool and have an amazing swimming session.

Enjoy your time in the water and you can also arrange a friendly race just for fun. 

You can eat your breakfast at the pool on a summer day while enjoying the water together.

You can also have a lunch date by the side of the pool and spend time with each other while enjoying the mood. 

Asking her to be your girlfriend by the side of the pool is a really romantic setting and create an amazing memory for both of you. 

11. Go to a mountain

Take her on a trip to some mountain nearby. Enjoy the cool breeze together and the beauty of nature. A good environment will always play an amazing role in your mood and help you to grow your bond together. 

You can express your feelings in front of a big waterfall and ask her to be your girlfriend.

The mood of nature will help her to think positively and you both will be able to spend some peaceful time with each other away from your busy and regular life. 

If you both love adventures then you can go hiking together. This can be a unique experience for you. You can ask her to be your girlfriend when you reach the top of the mountain.

This can be really romantic and you will be able to spend a calm and peaceful time together. 

12. Go camping 

Book a camping site and take your girl on a camping trip for a night. Camping can be really adventurous and romantic too.

You can arrange it in a harmless forest nearby or a mountain. If you want to enjoy the trip with your group, invite your friends too. 

You can set a bonfire in your campsite and sit together covering yourself and your girl together with a blanket.

You can have some barbecues or some marshmallows. Add some music to your night and make the mood more romantic. 

You can talk about different things while enjoying nature and express your feelings to her whenever you get the chance.

You can use a song to convey the message or ask her directly. Give her some time to think and respond, do not try to rough her into something.  

13. Ask her via a scavenger hunt

If your girl loves excitement and thrill in her life you can arrange a scavenger hunt for her. You can ask your friends for help. Set up all the clues at your place and invite her over.

You can write a letter expressing all your emotions for her and ask the question you have for her and add the letter with the final reward. 

This can be really exciting for both of you. As she will make progress both of your heart beats will increase. 

You can set up a secret camera somewhere to capture her actions. This can be really entertaining for her and she will definitely appreciate all your efforts to make things so special. 

14. Take her to your favorite garden

You can ask her out and take her to your favorite garden. Hold her hand and explore the garden together. 

Staying close to nature always helps us to keep our minds calm and peaceful which can play an effective role in decision making. 

You can sit somewhere near the flowers, look into her eyes and express how you feel about her by holding her hands.

You can end your speech by getting down on your knees and asking her to be your girlfriend. 

The mood of nature will boost the connection between you two which will be helpful for her to think positively and make the right choice. 

15. Ask her on a special day

If you are certain about your decision and a big day is coming in the next few weeks, you can use that day as a great opportunity. 

That day can be special for some celebrations like Christmas Eve or New year’s eve. It can also be special for something personal like any of your birthdays or the day you two met for the first time. 

Plan an amazing date for her somewhere or you can take her for a small trip. You can write something for her and read it out loud or you can just talk your heart out.

You can plan your speech according to the date you are choosing for it. 

16. Plan a picnic

You can arrange a small picnic with her in some private location close to nature. Set up everything beforehand, use the things that she really likes. It will make her really happy and she will really appreciate all your efforts.

You can surprise her with an outfit and take her to the picnic spot. You can keep everything a surprise for her to make things more exciting if you want.

You can spend a lot of time together and talk about various things. 

You can play different games or explore the place to keep up the excitement. Take her to a nice spot and ask her to be your girlfriend by confessing how you truly feel about her. 

17. Ask her on a Merry go round 

Riding a merry-go-round is always very exciting and enjoyable for everyone. You can take her to a carnival or an amusement park nearby. 

Explore the whole area throughout the day. You can try different rides and boost up your excitement. 

Ride a merry-go-round and ask her to be your girlfriend when you reach the top. Proposing someone to be your girlfriend on the top of the merry-go-round can be really romantic and memorable for the rest of your life. 

If she says yes and things between you take a good turn you can lean in for a kiss and make it more memorable. 

18. Ask her on a hot air balloon 

You can plan a small outing with her and take her to ride a hot air balloon. This can be really adventurous and a lifetime experience. 

You can spend some peaceful time alone and away from the world in the sky. Hold each other’s hand and enjoy the beautiful view from up there. 

You can plan what you want to say to her and tell her once you reach the maximum height. You can get down on your knees and ask her to be your girlfriend.

This will be really romantic and spice up the connection between you two. 

19. Take her on a helicopter ride

If she loves to take some adventurous steps in her life then take her on a helicopter ride. If she has not ridden a helicopter before this can be really exciting for her.

Enjoying the beauty from the sky with you can be mind-blowing for her.

This much excitement will boost both of your adrenaline rushes before the big moment.

Confessing your feelings to your girl and asking her to be your girlfriend in the sky will be memorable for her forever. 

20. Ask her at a sunset spot

Take your partner for a long ride to a beautiful sunset spot closer to your town. You can sit by holding each other’s hand and enjoy the beautiful view in a beautiful location.

Watching the sunset together with someone you really like is very romantic itself. 

If she also secretly likes you then this moment and this beauty will boost her feelings for you too. The romance in the air will spice up your connection and make both of you blush. 

You can get down on your knees and confess your feelings for her and ask her to be your girlfriend. Wait for her response. If she really likes you then she will not be able to resist herself in this beautiful moment. 

21. Write a letter

Writing a love letter is the most romantic thing to do for all ages. You can write a beautiful letter for her with all your emotions and your thoughts.

You can write everything you want to say to her and end the letter with your question. 

You can post the letter to her address or you can invite her to a date and give her the letter hand to hand. This will be the most romantic way to start a relationship with the person you really like. 

This plan will help you to boost up the romance as well as to avoid the nervousness to confess your feelings face to face.

You can also take as many chances as you need to write the perfect letter for yourself. 

22. Write your question on a cake?

If you know baking you can bake her favorite flavored cake for her. Decorate the cake nicely and write down your question on the cake. 

You can plan a date at your place, decorate your place with some lights and some scented candles to create a romantic mood, which can help you to boost your connection together.

Set the table before she arrives but keep the cake as a surprise. 

Try to enjoy your time together and spend some quality time with each other. You can arrange some activities or play some board games to increase the fun of the night.

Present your cake as a dessert after enjoying your meal together and observe what she does. She will definitely appreciate all your efforts and possibly make the right choice for both of you.

23. Make a poster

You can make a big poster that can reflect all about your journey together. You can add some pictures of both of you chronologically according to your journey. You can also add something special that you have of her. 

You can also write some small stories of your journey together and some fun facts to make the poster more entertaining.

Represent the poster in front of her and you can give a fun presentation and recall your stories. 

You can write down what you actually feel and actually want to talk about it face to face via a presentation and nothing can match the amount of romance that is reflecting your feelings and your behavior. 

24. Arrange a photoshoot

If you both love each other and want to click some amazing pictures together you can arrange an indoor or an outdoor shoot. There is no need to book some high-budget photographer to capture your moments. 

You can only ask one of your friends who is good with cameras to click some of the pictures together.

Try different outfits by coordinating with each other and clicking some amazing couple pictures that will be able to preserve forever. 

You can choose a nice location to click all your pictures or you can just set a good background and click all of them at your place only. 

Wear the most attractive outfit of the day, get down on your knees and ask her to be your girlfriend in front of the cameras. This will be a very romantic way to confess your feelings. 

The photographer will also be able to capture all your moments together and preserve those photos as a great memory forever.

After a few years, you can look at those photos and recall your beautiful moment together.

25. Ask her at some lantern festival

Lantern festivals are very popular in some cultures and always have their own flavors.

These festivals are perfect to express love for each other and spend some romantic time together. You can take her to a lantern festival nearby and confess everything you want to.

Wait for the perfect wind and light your lantern together with your girl. Ask your girl to be your girlfriend after lighting your lantern, when the sky is full of flying lanterns. 

This amazing environment can really create a romantic mood and bring you closer to each other. You can watch the beautiful view and enjoy your time in each other’s arms. 

26. Play truth and dare

Truth or dare is a  very entertaining game for everyone. This game can really help you to know more about each other’s thoughts and feelings and some amazing dares can let you do something fun and courageous. 

You can play this game on a date night with your girl at your place and have some great fun. Play for sometimes and set the mood. 

You can start with some emotional and personal questions and some fun dare in every round and as soon as you are prepared ask her to be your girlfriend at your turn of truth or dare. 

27. Ask while playing an outdoor game

If you both love different sports then you can arrange a playdate with her. Go outside and play some outdoor games with her and let the excitement come out from within. 

You can choose to play any games that she likes and let her enjoy the fullest.

You can also arrange a friendly match and have a healthy competition with each other if you want to increase the fun of your date. 

A playdate often can give so much laughter and excitement together. This can be the perfect opportunity to show your sportsman’s spirit and confess your feelings for her.

28. Take her to the aquarium 

You can take her to an aquarium nearby and enjoy the view of exotic fish. If you both are animal lovers and you love the water, the aquarium can be a perfect place for both of you to spend your time together. 

You can eat a meal together while enjoying the view and the underwater vibes. This can be really exciting and fun.

Find the perfect scope to express your feelings to her and ask her to be your girlfriend. 

If you both are enjoying each other’s company as well as the mood of the aquarium this can be the perfect place for you to express yourself to her. 

29. Plan a gift unwrapping 

Everyone loves to unwrap their gifts and feel the excitement to find out what it is. You can use that excitement to express your feelings to the girl you like. 

Buy a gift for her and wrap it with multiple wrapping papers. Select something as your gift, that she is really passionate about or something that she is trying to buy for a long time now. 

This will be really emotional for her and she will appreciate all your efforts. You can write a small note saying, “Will you be my girlfriend?” and add it with your gift. Wrap all this together and give it to your partner and ask her to open it.

She will find it really entertaining to unwrap the gift and when she will find out the note with the gift her reaction will be priceless.

Set up the camera beforehand to capture those moments and preserve them forever.   

30. Arrange a date on a cruise

Planning a date on a cruise is really romantic as well as costly. If you have that much budget then take your partner on a cruise on a date and enjoy the beauty of the sea together.

You can plan a candle night dinner there under the open sky full of stars.

You can also enjoy the view of the night sea. The cool breeze and the sound of the sea can boost all the romance in the air and you both will be able to spend an amazing time.

You can sit in each other’s arms and talk about different things. Take some time and let the mood set and ask the girl you like to be your girlfriend by getting down on your knees on a moonlight night. 

Prepare yourself and express your feelings when you get the perfect opportunity with a special gift for her. 

31. Ask with her favorite drink

If she is very passionate about drinks then you can ask her to be your girlfriend with her favorite drink.

Arrange a private drink party at your place. Invite her over and explore the test of different drinks available in the market. 

Order as many drinks as you can, which you have never tried before. Explore the tests with her and find out which you like the most. 

You can order her favorite drink beforehand without telling her and surprise her with it after exploring the world of the drinks. You can express your feelings while offering her favorite drink. 

32. Write it on a T-shirt

Nowadays people often wear customized T-shirts. They write different things on their shirts according to their choice.

You can make a customized one for yourself and write down your question there. 

You can wear that T-shirt under your shirt and arrange a date at your place. Order some good food and create a good mood with some lights and some music. 

Whenever you feel you are ready, open the buttons of your shirt and make your T-shirt visible to her and ask her what you wanted to ask. 

This can be a silly but unique way to ask her to be your girlfriend. She may burst out into great laughter after this event and enjoy it to the fullest. 

33. Involve your common friends

Plan something by involving your common friends and making it more memorable. If you are certain that she is also interested in you then plan something like this otherwise it can be really overwhelming. 

Select a great location and decorate the place to give it a romantic vibe. Ask one of your common friends to bring her there, by making some excuse.

Be very careful so that she can not doubt a single thing about your plan. 

Ask someone else from your group to get ready with the camera so that your big moment can be captured for life. 

Get down on your knees and take the position with the gift that you bought for her as soon as she arrives and ask her to be your girlfriend.

If she really likes you this will be really exciting for her and she will enjoy everything and appreciate all your efforts to make everything so special. 

34. Ask in the highway

Take her to a long drive on a highway. Long drives are always very exciting as well as romantic with some good music and a great view.

You can plan this date if she also loves the excitement and the adventure in life. 

You can stop the car at a beautiful place in the middle of the highway. Get out of her car and open the door for her too.

Get down on your knees and confess your feelings for her in the middle of the highway. 

This can be really adventurous and the most romantic thing to do and she will definitely be surprised as well as excited. 

35. Put it on a screen

You can arrange a date for her wherever you really want. You need to do all the arrangements before she arrives. Have a good meal together and order a cake at the time of the desert. 

If there is a big screen there, ask the authority to pop the questions you want to ask on the big screen with some good music. The order of your cake can be the cue for that. 

This is a unique idea to ask someone to be your girlfriend but can be really romantic and entertaining.

If she says yes then you both can cut the cake together to celebrate a new beginning. 

36. Use lights to guide the way 

You can book a maze and plan something unique for her. Invite her over and create landmarks for her using fairy lights and some flowers.

You can also use flower petals to make her way. If she walks through the way following your direction then she will be able to reach you. 

Write your question on a big poster and get down on your knees by holding the poster as soon as she arrives. So that once she reaches you she will be able to see your question. 

Give her some time to think if needed because this can be really exciting and overwhelm her heart. If she really likes you she will not be able to resist her feelings in this romantic situation. 

37. Ask with her favorite flowers

Asking someone to be your girlfriend with some flowers is very common but also romantic.

If you do not have much budget at this moment then you can use this simple but passionate plan for her.

Bring her favorite flower and bend down on your knees while confessing your feelings and asking her to be your girlfriend. 

38. Solve a puzzle

If you both love puzzles you can use this to express your feelings for her. Try to solve a big puzzle with her on your date.

This can be really exciting and will also help you both to improve your ability to work together. 

Enjoy the excitement and each other’s company and try to solve the puzzle. You can plan to ask her to be your girlfriend once you both are able to solve the puzzle and win the game. 

39. Ask her while watching your favorite movie

Arrange a movie date at your place and invite her over. Select her favorite movie to watch and add your question to be your girlfriend somewhere in between the movie.

You will need help from someone with good editing skills to make that possible. 

Create a cozy environment at your place and watch the movie with some snacks and a cup of coffee.

As soon as the question pops up on the screen you will see her cheeks turn red and blushing at the same time. 

This will be really unexpected for her but extremely romantic and exciting. 

40. Fairy light display

Arrange all the fairy lights you have at your home in a way that will show the pattern of ‘“Will you be my girlfriend?” Invite the girl you like to your place and turn off all the lights in your room as soon as she arrives. 

Make some direction signs that will direct her to your darkroom. As soon as she enters through your doors, turn on the fairy lights so that the pattern can be visible and she can read your question. 

This is a very unique way to ask someone to be your girlfriend and romantic too. You both can continue the night with a candlelight dinner after getting your answer. 


How to ask a girl to be your girlfriend online 

Write a mail

You can write an email and express all your emotions and feelings for her there. Write the mail in the form of a virtual love letter and send it to her and wait for her response. 

Write a poem 

You can write a poem about the girl you really like and try to express your emotions through that poem and send it to her. This can be really romantic and give you a good start. 

Make a virtual card and mail her

You can make a virtual card or a virtual poster, use some cute templates or you can edit one of your pictures together and write down your feelings there. 

Make a video and send her 

You can make a video saying all about the girl you really like. Talk about your feelings or the day you first met her. You can talk about what you really like about her in your video.

Make a cute video and send it to her. This will definitely bring a smile to her face. 


When to ask a girl to be your girlfriend 

If you are thinking of asking someone to be your girlfriend you need to make sure of certain things. Think about how long you two know each other and how you really feel about her.

You should try to find out what she really thinks about you and what is going on in her life before taking such a step. 

If you are confident about yourself and you are mentally prepared to confess your feelings then do not hold yourself back and plan a date and ask her to be your girlfriend. 


Things that you should think about before making your final choice

Summary
There are certain things that you really need to think about before making the final choice of asking the girl you really like to be your girlfriend. Ask these questions to yourself before executing your plan once again. 

Understand if you really want her to be your girlfriend

Think twice before making the final choice of whether you really want her to be your girlfriend or not. Sometimes when you are attracted to someone it is hard to think using your brain. 

You may like her and think of her as the perfect person to be your partner but you must try using your brain for once.

Try to understand how much you know this girl and what are the factors you really like about her. 

Try to understand your compatibility and your mutual understanding for each other. Try to think about how much scope you have in the future if you are looking for a long-term relationship.  

How is your relationship with her

You need to think about your relationship with her. Understanding is a very important factor in a relationship. Think about how well you two can understand each other. 

Your ability to work together or find a solution to some problem together will be equally important to look into.

If you both trust each other and care about each other then you can take things further. 

If she says yes to your question you both will start a new relationship and a relationship always comes with different responsibilities, ask yourself if you both are equally ready to take those responsibilities and sort everything out together. 

For how long have you known each other

Timing is very important in everything in your life. Think about how long you know each other and how much time you have spent with each other.

If you have both known each other for a very long time then it will be easier for you to sort everything out together. 

If you are attracted to a stranger or someone you have just known for a few days and you want to ask her to be your girlfriend then you must take a pause and think carefully.

Try to spend some more time with her. Make some plans together and spend some quality time. Try to know more about her, likes and dislikes, preferences about different things in life, and allow her to know more about you as well. 

This will help you to understand if you really want her in your life and what is the scope you have for a better future together. 

What do you think she thinks about you?

If you really want her to be your girlfriend then what she thinks about you is very much important. You need to find out how much she is interested in you and what she really thinks about you.

If you are not certain of her perception of you it can be really difficult for you to plan something big.

Because if she is not much interested in you or if she likes someone else secretly, things can be really overwhelming and confusing and may create an uncomfortable moment. 

Can you handle it if you get a negative response? 

This is another important factor that you need to think about. You can not be hundred percent confident that she will say yes.

She may also say no for several reasons and you need to ask yourself if you are ready to handle that. 

Prepare yourself for any kind of reaction when you ask her to be your girlfriend. You need to learn to control your emotions and accept the negative response too. 

You will experience pain and disbelief if she says no to your question and it is very normal but you need to learn the reasons behind her decision and ensure to respect her decision entirely. 

See if you have any second thoughts

Sometimes when you like someone it often hampers your ability to think using your brain.

People tend to rush on things without thinking about the future when they are attracted to someone. It is better to think before than regret later in life. 

If you truly like someone and you want to ask her to be your girlfriend, think carefully before executing your plan.

There are so many responsibilities in a relationship, think if you are ready for all of them. 

How well you think you know the girl you like and try to find out what are her thoughts about you before making the final decision. Take some time and think if you are having some second thoughts about your decision. 

If you are searching for a long term relationship try to find out if there is any scope for you two in the future. 

If you are confused about something or if you are having second thoughts about certain things, take a pause and think about the factors that can be responsible for your thoughts. 

Postpone your plans and try to sort your feelings and your thoughts first. Do not rush into things if you are experiencing any conflict about your future.

Try to find out the responsible factors and try to resolve them if possible before executing your plan. 

Think about the timing

Timing is very important for anything in your life, especially when it can affect your future.

If you really like someone and you are certain to ask her to be your girlfriend, try to find the perfect timing to express your feelings to her. 

Observe her for some days and try to find out what is going on in her life. If she is experiencing any stressful events in her life then this is not the right time to ask something like that. 

Try to understand the things that she is focusing on currently in her life. If she is focusing on something big, which is very much important for her then she may not be able to focus on something big like your question for her. 

Take some time and stand by her side while she can overcome her current situation in life and ask her once she is in a stable situation. 

You also need to observe her mood before executing your plan. A bad mood can affect her decision about you. Make sure that she is in a good mood when you are asking her to be your girlfriend. 

Remember, no one can tell you what is the right time for you to take that big step. It is only what you can find out on your own.

Think carefully, observe minutely, listen to your gut and plan your big day. 

Make a plan

If everything else is in its place and you are ready to take that big step in your life, try to plan something big for your girl to create a special moment for both of you.

You need to understand her likes and dislikes if you want to plan something for her. 

First, you need to prepare yourself and think about everything that you want to tell her. If you plan before what message you actually want to convey her through words it will make your work easier. 

Next, you need to plan a perfect place and a good time to execute everything. Our environment plays so much role in our thoughts and our actions. 

You need to think of a calm and romantic place where you can talk to her if you really want her to understand your feelings.

A good environment will help her to think positively and make the right choice. 

Wrap up

It is really difficult to ask someone to be your girlfriend but this article will help you plan the entire thing very smoothly.

Do not rush into something and think twice before making any decision in your life and prepare yourself for anything as a result. 

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