Soulmate

Woundmate

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Soulmate

Woundmate

Strong pull towards each other - can be instant or develop over time.

Strong pull towards each other - often instant or develop over time.

Soulmate

Woundmate

Whilst all relationships have ups and downs, connection is generally calm and peaceful.

This connection is usually intense and chaotic. 'Really good' or 'really bad'.

Soulmate

Woundmate

You feel connected based on positive aspects of your being e.g. shared values and interest.

You feel connected based on trauma - similar childhoods, toxic environment and values.

Soulmate

Woundmate

You heal in this relationship. You share your insecurities with your partner and they ease your fear.

You feel more insecure in the relationship than before, can't share fears, walking on eggshells, or wearing a mask to please them.

Soulmate

Woundmate

You feel safe in this connection.

There is a sense of addiction in this connection.

Who is A Soulmate?

According to Dr. Michael Tobin, a soulmate is someone who you feel deeply connected to, but not in a dependent or needy way.

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