Things to do after a breakup

Wait for the Initial 21 Days after a Breakup:

Don't go for rebound relationship

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Don't find reasons to go back to the same person

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Learn to love yourself, each and every day

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Sometimes time doesn't heal you

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Don't ignore the RED flags

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Spend time with people who love you

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Focus on things that make you happy

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Wait for the Initial 21 Days after a Breakup:

Don't go for rebound relationship

It might give you some days of relief, but eventually it will make you feel even more vulnerable.

Don't find reasons to go back to the same person

Just because you are feeling lonely or you are attached to them does not mean you need to go back.

Learn to love yourself, each and every day

And, you'll reach a point wherein you'll feel glad that it didn't work out with him/her. You are in a much happy place now.

Sometimes time doesn't heal you

But, gives you clarity. Don't give up on yourself during the initial days.

Don't ignore the RED flags

After a break, we usually try to attach ourselves to the good memories by avoiding the red flags. There was a reason why it didn't work out.

Spend time with people who love you

In these hard days, be with people who are good for your mental health. Avoid people who put you down. You matter to a lot of people - Believe me!

Focus on things that make you happy

It is difficult, but don't be so hard on yourself. Do things that make you happy - exercise, dance, sing.

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